Is it really privilege?
I can choose to resent someone else for having a good childhood and loving parents if I see that as some form of privilege.
I can also recognize that I was raised by monsters and no one else should feel guilty that they weren’t.
Much of what we are being conditioned to believe is privilege are the way things would and should be if one or more involved parties were not dynfunctional, ignorant, misguided, evil, stupid, or some combination thereof.
Regardless of what’s happened to me, it’s still my responsibility to get my house in order.